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I decided I never wanted to be in that situation again—so badly wanting to give a sexual partner something they want me to give them, but absolutely unable to. Or that you have to be some sort of superhuman or freak to enjoy it.


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You should avoid cheap, hard, plastic-feeling toys made out of materials like TPE. Do research! You may find — as I did — that the stretching process can be more fun than the actual fisting. Which means we, the viewing public, rarely see the failed attempts or hours of training.

Seek soft, spongy, cushiony dildos from manufacturers that specialize in anal toys. I demonstrated: my hand, balled in a fist, punched slowly through the air, a gentle six-inch thrust, turned slightly at the wrist, and pulled back. I found a massive love of toys or a love of massive toys along the way.

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You must get accustomed to this feeling and enjoy it before you work up to larger insertables. Cylinders open your hole and keep it open at the same dilation as they slide in and out, while a butt plug constantly forces your hole to close and open around a rounded object, which stretches and trains the muscles in your sphincter think: kegel balls. Fingernails can hurt — and even tear and injure — the delicate skin of the rectum and colon. You probably have a shit phobia.

The journey of fisting is training your body to breathe, relax, and enjoy the sensation of your body relaxing and opening. Pro tip: I frequently go on sex breaks to recenter, rediscover what I like, and focus on parts of myself that need my attention. Our culture tends to conflate tightness with virginity and virginity with desirability. Give your butt a rest. While the infection potential of gloveless fisting is disputed among fisters, you should definitely start with gloves. Consider fisting Olympic-style penetration.

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An amateur fister who claims to be a pro can hurt you. Lube it up with tons of lube, slide it slowly in, get comfortable with the feeling, then pull it slowly out. That said, you should wash your hands and forearms thoroughly before every fist session. No one bats an eye. Porn is wonderful, but it also skews to the advanced skill level. Between sets at the gym, I explained to a friend what fisting is.

In, and out. All sports have risks. Insertable toys can get very expensive, especially larger ones, and you want to pay for premium materials. It happens before, during, and after the action, and gets edited out of the final product.

For all others, enjoy the slideshow. Dildos are far from the best way to train your butt. Trust me. Photo by Jon Dean.

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Everyone has toy recommendations, buddy referrals, and so on. Everyone who fists must get comfortable around these more intimate, messy realities of our lives. If someone can refer you to a good playmate, reach out to them. Pro tip: I use J-Lube. Steadily build speed. Many guys start fisting on drugs, because drugs make fisting easier.

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You learn with small butt plugs that gradually get you comfortable with the feeling of stretching your anal sphincter your hole. What might feel like a barely-there sliver of fingernail to you will feel sharp when your hand is inside your playmate. Fisters love talking about fisting. On the other side of that nervous threshold is the most intense pleasure my body has ever felt.

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Ask for tips, tricks, and suggestions. The views in this slideshow do not reflect those of The Advocate and are based solely off of my own experiences. Click through for my First time fisting gay tips on taking a hand. Pro tip: Referrals might seem awkward, but if you want to do this, someone needs to train you. Talk about using the bathroom. That time and effort is worth it, at least until you build up some skill. We have a pretty tight-knit community. We tend to tense our muscles when we experience new and uncomfortable sensations.

Being a good fister requires knowledge of different chemicals and compounds and how they interact with each other. Pro tip: Purchase a small, smooth, teardrop-shaped or rocket-shaped butt plug no larger than an inch in diameter. And feel free to leave your own suggestions of sex and dating topics in the comments.

Those who are sensitive to frank discussions about sex are invited to click elsewhere, but consider this: If you are outraged by content that address sex openly and honestly, I invite you to examine this outrage and ask yourself whether it should instead be directed at those who oppress us by policing our sexuality. Pro tip: Fisting happens in the mind, not the body. Best way to avoid injury?

This is for everybody. You want to build confidence and trust with this person.

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Most of these are way too hard for ass play. Years later, I accepted the fact that I was into it, and had to try it. Pro tip: A daily fiber regimen like Metamucil will make your cleaning process easier. He did not believe me. My name is Alexander Cheves, and I am known by friends in the kink and leather community as Beastly. This is way better with a playmate. They mask the sensation of pain and relax your body.

The journey of relearning fisting and retraining my body is different and rewarding every time.

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It will take more time and more effort without substances. Pro tip: Start with a good toy play session and see how big you can go. The vulnerability of working and exploring the limits of your pleasure and your body with someone is powerful.

You can clean for hours and will never eliminate all traces of fecal matter from your rectum, and you shouldn't try to. Everyone with a kinky thing: Stop using porn as a the measuring stick for skill. You might require some healing time, but your butt will shrink back up and work the same way it worked before.

That horror morphed into curiosity. Ready to try? While drugs have understandable appeal for all kinds of sex not just fistingmasking pain is problematic, since pain tells you when you need to stop. Tops: Your fingernails must be shaved down to nubs. Fisting is a two-person job.

I am a sex-positive writer and blogger. As with all sports, there are necessary steps you must take to minimize risks. The feeling itself is overwhelming, uncomfortable, and can be very intimidating.

The kinkiest, most hardcore fister will be a beginner to a new kink. The stigma against fisting is real. I was horrified of fisting when I first saw a video. In the kink community, fisting is not a divisive or uncommon practice. Pro tip : Use gloves made of nitrile, which is just as strong and protective as latex. Adding different compounds to the mixture produces different effects. This is why you must wear gloves. Different fisters enjoy different consistencies — I like my J-Lube thicker, less runny.

Eventually, you will reach a point where you are less afraid of the body and how it works. Form your reality around your own experience first. Talk to him about your skill level. Hungry for more? Clove oil, for example, softens the skin and minimizes inflammation and irritation, and has a nice smell.

Like everything I write, the intent of this piece is to break down the stigmas surrounding the sex lives of gay men. It stretches. And then — and only then — can you start playing with fingers. Talk about your body, your diet, and your cleaning regimen with other fisters.

Look up apps like Recon or, better yet, go to your nearest leather bar or fetish store and ask the people there if they recommend any local fisting gatherings or online communities.