Male submissive tasks
One of the biggest things for a slave is to feel owned, controlled and dominated. They need to feel helpless and reminded every hour of every day that they have an owner whether it be a Master or a Mistress. Here, we are going to list below some of the best slave training techniques and femdom punishment ideas with ways to make your submissive feel totally owned whether it be in an online session, a real-time session at a dungeon or within a lifestyle relationship.
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Make them give a live webcam show. Make them write something on social media. Smear some lipstick on their mouths and make them go out. Make them perform a very difficult task and tell them all the ways they are failing at completing it or doing it wrong.
Peg him. Make him tan while wearing a bikini. Call them a degrading name. Make them wear high heels. Make them go to the store and buy a list of embarrassing products.
Walk around carrying an embarrassing object — sex toy, doll, dirty magazine. Make them admit something embarrassing, then share the news with others. Make him wear nail polish. Share them sexually with other kinksters. Make them wear a diaper and suck on a pacifier. Make them sing a difficult song and point out every flaw. Is it pleasurable? Have them act as a piece of furniture. Search for:. Make them eat off the floor. Is it damaging?
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Tie them up outside and leave them there for a deated period of time. Any sex acts, or anything that involves bodily fluid, should be dealt with as much safety as possible — contraceptives, condoms, STD test, trusted partners, etc. Ignore them completely.
Make them consume their own cum after an orgasm. Forcing someone to do this eg. Real blackmail is illegal. Make them wear a chastity belt under the clothes when they go to work. Make them act like — and treat them accordingly. Make them wear a paper bag over the head with eye holes cut out.
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Make them wear a smartphone-controlled sex toy like a butt plug, love egg, or prostate massager when they go out and set it off whenever you wish. Spread the love. Make them watch porn and have them share all the things that turn them on. Either by better behavior or a fun time, participants should be aiming for a positive outcome.
Have them write their own blog, with lots of details about their humiliations. They must ask permission to do anything and everything. Record an embarrassing action and make them watch it. Insult their intelligence or accomplishments.
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However, it is possible for some acts of degradation to ALSO humiliate. Laugh at them while they masturbate. If you have a home-desk, make them sit under it while you work. Make them wear embarrassing outfits when they go out — take it an extra step and make them go to a Wal-Mart the store is infamous for customers with strange clothing — their photo will probably end up on some social media site.
You also must consider there could be young and impressionable eyes about. Share in the comments! Spit on them. Write insulting names or phrases on their body with a permanent marker. Because strangers walking down the street — vanilla or otherwise — are not able or might not want to consent to seeing it.
Eat from a pet bowl. BDSM is already misrepresented. If extreme privacy is needed, Doms must adjust accordingly.
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Make them dress as an animal and act like that animal. Become a human ashtray. Any other humiliation or degradation ideas?
Urinate on them. Forced chastity — roll some dice to see how long they must go without an orgasm. Awkward or strange masturbation methods — like making them hump a stuffed animal or into food etc.
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Some of these are male-specific, some are for women, but many will work for any identified gender. Fuck them near a window with the blinds open. Cover them in pudding or other sloppy foods. Order for them when you go out for dinner. Punishments should be clear and consistent.
Make them perform rimming on their Dom or even another person. Blackmail role play — It can only be roleplay. Have them shave off all their body hair, eyebrows too Make him wear feminine deodorant or perfume. Make them sleep on the floor. Make them go to the grocery store and buy the largest cucumber or eggplant they can find and a bottle of lube.
Places like sex clubs, BDSM gatherings, a private gathering of kinky friends, kink festivals, private property no trespassing etc. Degradation is when you try to lower or dehumanize someone — making them act like a piece of furniture or an animal. Make him sit down to pee.
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Make them go into a photo booth and complete a list of embarrassing poses etc. Good, old-fashioned spanking.
Penis humiliation — small, worthless, flaccid etc. Make them stand outside with a saying something embarrassing.